Had to make various other changes due to incompatibilities.
- Use the new `lit` package instead of `lit-html` or `lit-element`
- Drop `haunted` since it breaks the rules by specifying `type: module`
but then doesn't import with file extensions
- Use Sass Dart instead of node-sass (fixes#2445)
- Upgrade Karma
The eventual goal is to avoid UI-related stanza processing if the relevant chats
aren't in the DOM.
With the current architecture, chatboxes are created (and the stanzas
related to them processed) even if `#conversejs` isn't in the DOM.
* Initial work on making controlbox an element
* Create a shared base class
* Ceate ChatBoxViews proxy
* Update sass now that certain classes are moved to converse-chats element
