The eventual goal is to avoid UI-related stanza processing if the relevant chats
aren't in the DOM.
With the current architecture, chatboxes are created (and the stanzas
related to them processed) even if `#conversejs` isn't in the DOM.
* Initial work on making controlbox an element
* Create a shared base class
* Ceate ChatBoxViews proxy
* Update sass now that certain classes are moved to converse-chats element
Bug got introduced during fix for #677
Eventually had to do a significant refactoring, to more consistently use the
`hidden` class instead of `display: None`. (relevant for #695)